What exactly makes someone an expert? Are the criteria objective or subjective? By what standard does someone earn this designation?
This past weekend while participating in a gathering of homeschooling families, I was deemed an expert because of my "25 years of service." Another woman who had been homeschooling for almost two decades told me, "You're one of the sage women like me." We both agreed that we had earned every one of the gray hairs on our heads! To these homeschooling families, my longevity at this particular endeavor meant that they should give attention to what I had to say.
Today, while at the athletic club, I overheard two women discussing another woman who was a gifted musician and worship leader at their church. They each couldn't say enough good things about her, with one exception. They were dismayed because she hadn't finished her degree. One added, "If she would just go back and get her degree she could be a wonderful music therapist." The other agreed that this would complete the package for this gal. Forget the fact that each of them had first-hand experience of her capabilities both with music and with children. For them, she needed to get credentials.
Too many parents who wish to provide a Christian education and establish homeschools are "put off" by similar considerations. They are sure that they don't have the ability to educate their children. This would be understandable if they weren't educated people -- but many of them are. They have a strong commitment to the Bible and its application in their lives. But, they have been duped into thinking that it takes an "expert" to teach a child to read and compute.
I maintain that anyone who can read or compute, with a bit of encouragement and orientation to correct methods (phonics for reading and memorized and practiced drills for arithmetic), can produce students with high levels of achievement. How do I know this? Because, I've done it with my own children and have witnessed it with countless others. Surely, there are those who choose to delegate this responsibility to others, but it is a ridiculous statement to assert that it takes twelve years of high school, four years of college, and another year or two for a masters degree in order to teach one's own language to a young person. Anyone interested in purchasing some swamp land, too?
Make no mistake about it; homeschooling isn't a mindless activity that anyone can undertake. In fact, if it is not pursued in a godly, systematic fashion, homeschooling can end up being just another way to be irresponsible. Homeschooling parents need to be pursuing a study of the Word of God with an eye to its authority over and application to all disciplines: academics, the arts, and even choices of athletics and recreation. The good news is that it doesn't take years and years of training before one can begin. On-the-job training is a very workable system, especially with all the mentoring and guidance help of curriculum publishers and other veteran "experts" like me.
I submit that homeschooling moms are among the most educated (in the truest meaning of the word) of teachers. How many other "professionals" take students from beginning to end and are versed in all the subjects in between? So, rather than deferring to so-called experts, I challenge any who are being led by the Holy Spirit to provide a home education for their children, to become an expert in the eyes of the Lord.
Thursday, March 29, 2007
Monday, March 26, 2007
A Quiet Revolution
This past Saturday I participated in a homeschool forum in a nearby county where homeschooling moms and dads spent four hours displaying textbooks and other curriculum choices they've used so they could help other families make decisions for the following school year, or just answer questions about particular subjects. Unlike homeschooling conventions, there were no sales or sales pitches. The sole purpose of this gathering was for Christian homeschooling families to help one another by means of encouragement and sharing information. A number of visitors were present who were just "checking out" what this homeschooling business was all about.
Although I was the "veteran" with the longest years of service (25), there were others who displayed signs indicating 19, 15, and 12 years of homeschooling. In addition, there were those who had just begun in September of 2006. Once again I was struck with the level of commitment and congeniality that marks most homeschool gatherings. An unknowing onlooker would most likely be dumbfounded and ask questions like "What makes these people tic?" or "What's in it for them?" Of course, these are the wrong questions. The question is "Who is in them?", and the answer -- the Holy Spirit.
I participated in a question and answer session over lunch. As I gazed at the faces of those in attendance, I realized just how "dangerous" a bunch we homeschoolers are! The major threat we pose to the humanistic secularism of our day is that we realize how precious a gift the fruit of the womb is -- the reward we've been given -- and we are actively obedient to the Giver of this gift by raising and training our children according to His holy directions.
The gates of Hell will never be able to defend itself against this sort of quiet revolution. Moreover, as those of us who are veterans in this battle for the hearts and minds of our children share our experiences, insights, and lessons learned with those still educating their own children and encouraging other interested families to do the same, we'll be setting the stage for reclaiming our culture for the Lord Jesus Christ.
From my perspective, the day was a raving success, and I hope I get additional opportunities to attend other homeschooling forums. My biggest encouragement came from the dads who thanked me for the solidly biblical perspective I expressed and my "unbridled passion" (as one man put it) for Christian education. I left richer -- not in dollars and cents -- but in the knowledge that there are multitudes of "quivers" out there across our land and the world that are being stocked by those who are learning to obey, love, and trust the Lord Jesus Christ.
For the weapons of our warfare are NOT carnal, but mighty through God, to the pulling down of strongholds and casting down imaginations of every high thing that exalts itself above the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ.
Although I was the "veteran" with the longest years of service (25), there were others who displayed signs indicating 19, 15, and 12 years of homeschooling. In addition, there were those who had just begun in September of 2006. Once again I was struck with the level of commitment and congeniality that marks most homeschool gatherings. An unknowing onlooker would most likely be dumbfounded and ask questions like "What makes these people tic?" or "What's in it for them?" Of course, these are the wrong questions. The question is "Who is in them?", and the answer -- the Holy Spirit.
I participated in a question and answer session over lunch. As I gazed at the faces of those in attendance, I realized just how "dangerous" a bunch we homeschoolers are! The major threat we pose to the humanistic secularism of our day is that we realize how precious a gift the fruit of the womb is -- the reward we've been given -- and we are actively obedient to the Giver of this gift by raising and training our children according to His holy directions.
The gates of Hell will never be able to defend itself against this sort of quiet revolution. Moreover, as those of us who are veterans in this battle for the hearts and minds of our children share our experiences, insights, and lessons learned with those still educating their own children and encouraging other interested families to do the same, we'll be setting the stage for reclaiming our culture for the Lord Jesus Christ.
From my perspective, the day was a raving success, and I hope I get additional opportunities to attend other homeschooling forums. My biggest encouragement came from the dads who thanked me for the solidly biblical perspective I expressed and my "unbridled passion" (as one man put it) for Christian education. I left richer -- not in dollars and cents -- but in the knowledge that there are multitudes of "quivers" out there across our land and the world that are being stocked by those who are learning to obey, love, and trust the Lord Jesus Christ.
For the weapons of our warfare are NOT carnal, but mighty through God, to the pulling down of strongholds and casting down imaginations of every high thing that exalts itself above the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ.
Friday, March 23, 2007
Good Merchandise
Today we received news from my daughter who is pursuing a masters program abroad that the law school that she was accepted to has offered her a sizable scholarship. Praise God! Almost immediately, my husband came up to me and said, "Well done, Teach!"
"What did I have to do with that?" I asked. "She's the one who got the grades and did well on the LSAT?"
He then answered in his profound way, "Do you think if the local high school received news that one of their graduates had accomplished the same thing that they wouldn't broadcast it far and wide to establish the credibility of the education they provide? Of course you had a LOT to do with it!"
Proverbs 31:18a reads: She perceiveth that her merchandise is good...
It is important for us homeschooling moms to realize that we have the privileged responsibility to shape our young ones for their future service in the Kingdom of God. It is important for us to remember that as we sacrifice and strive for our children, to bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord, that we are doing important work. Further, it is vital that we acquire the correct perception -- that our merchandise is good. For, in numerous places in Scripture we are promised that as we serve Him faithfully in our calling, the Lord will reward our efforts.
Here are some reminders of that fact:
Psalm 1
Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful.
But his delight is in the law of the LORD; and in his law doth he meditate day and night.
And he shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, that bringeth forth his fruit in his season; his leaf also shall not wither; and whatsoever he doeth shall prosper.
The ungodly are not so: but are like the chaff which the wind driveth away.
Therefore the ungodly shall not stand in the judgment, nor sinners in the congregation of the righteous.
For the LORD knoweth the way of the righteous: but the way of the ungodly shall perish.
Psalm 127
Except the LORD build the house, they labour in vain that build it: except the LORD keep the city, the watchman waketh but in vain.
It is vain for you to rise up early, to sit up late, to eat the bread of sorrows: for so he giveth his beloved sleep.
Lo, children are an heritage of the LORD: and the fruit of the womb is his reward.
As arrows are in the hand of a mighty man; so are children of the youth.
Happy is the man that hath his quiver full of them: they shall not be ashamed, but they shall speak with the enemies in the gate.
Psalm 128
Blessed is every one that feareth the LORD; that walketh in his ways.
For thou shalt eat the labour of thine hands: happy shalt thou be, and it shall be well with thee.
Thy wife shall be as a fruitful vine by the sides of thine house: thy children like olive plants round about thy table.Behold, that thus shall the man be blessed that feareth the LORD.
The LORD shall bless thee out of Zion: and thou shalt see the good of Jerusalem all the days of thy life.
Yea, thou shalt see thy children's children, and peace upon Israel.
"What did I have to do with that?" I asked. "She's the one who got the grades and did well on the LSAT?"
He then answered in his profound way, "Do you think if the local high school received news that one of their graduates had accomplished the same thing that they wouldn't broadcast it far and wide to establish the credibility of the education they provide? Of course you had a LOT to do with it!"
Proverbs 31:18a reads: She perceiveth that her merchandise is good...
It is important for us homeschooling moms to realize that we have the privileged responsibility to shape our young ones for their future service in the Kingdom of God. It is important for us to remember that as we sacrifice and strive for our children, to bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord, that we are doing important work. Further, it is vital that we acquire the correct perception -- that our merchandise is good. For, in numerous places in Scripture we are promised that as we serve Him faithfully in our calling, the Lord will reward our efforts.
Here are some reminders of that fact:
Psalm 1
Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful.
But his delight is in the law of the LORD; and in his law doth he meditate day and night.
And he shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, that bringeth forth his fruit in his season; his leaf also shall not wither; and whatsoever he doeth shall prosper.
The ungodly are not so: but are like the chaff which the wind driveth away.
Therefore the ungodly shall not stand in the judgment, nor sinners in the congregation of the righteous.
For the LORD knoweth the way of the righteous: but the way of the ungodly shall perish.
Psalm 127
Except the LORD build the house, they labour in vain that build it: except the LORD keep the city, the watchman waketh but in vain.
It is vain for you to rise up early, to sit up late, to eat the bread of sorrows: for so he giveth his beloved sleep.
Lo, children are an heritage of the LORD: and the fruit of the womb is his reward.
As arrows are in the hand of a mighty man; so are children of the youth.
Happy is the man that hath his quiver full of them: they shall not be ashamed, but they shall speak with the enemies in the gate.
Psalm 128
Blessed is every one that feareth the LORD; that walketh in his ways.
For thou shalt eat the labour of thine hands: happy shalt thou be, and it shall be well with thee.
Thy wife shall be as a fruitful vine by the sides of thine house: thy children like olive plants round about thy table.Behold, that thus shall the man be blessed that feareth the LORD.
The LORD shall bless thee out of Zion: and thou shalt see the good of Jerusalem all the days of thy life.
Yea, thou shalt see thy children's children, and peace upon Israel.
Wednesday, March 21, 2007
Homeschooling through High School - Frequently Asked Questions
Why would I want to homeschool through high school?
The book of Proverbs stresses the importance of wisdom, knowledge, and discretion. Throughout a young person's life, it is important that the primary influences be godly individuals who know the young person's strengths and weaknesses and can provide hands-on support in helping him/her maneuver through the many deceptions and lures of our modern humanistic culture. Homeschooling provides such a situation.
Aren't high school subjects harder to teach?
That depends. With a myriad of curriculum choices available (complete with teacher's editions and answer keys) much of the learning experience can be tailored to meet individual academic needs. Many families make use of co-ops where parents divide up subject matter according to their area of expertise or experience.
What about athletic opportunities and activities?
A number of private Christian schools allow homeschooled students to participate in athletic activities. Also, drama, speech, and other programs may also be available, either through a school or by way of a homeschooling co-op. Of course, if there is something that parents want that doesn't exist, they can always start a project themselves!
What about socialization?
This is a non-issue. In our current society, no one who attends church, goes to the grocery store, or is involved with extended family has any difficulty in socializing if they have been taught the rules of godly living from the time they were little. The entire socialization issue is a humanistic construct. Surely we can't say that the students who are graduates of public school settings are systematically socialized in ways that most people would consider positive.
Will homeschooling through high school hamper my child's chances of getting into college?
Not according to the experience of homeschooling families around the country. Many have attained very high SAT/ACT scores. Moreover, many college professors actually prefer homeschool graduates because they tend to be self-starters and ready for serious self-disciplined study. It is not unusual for homeschooled graduates to finish college is less than four years.
What should I be looking to achieve in my homeschool?
The most important result of successful homeschooling will be the production of godly individuals who look to the Word of God to provide a perspective and standard for what is right and true and honorable. With this orientation, all areas of life and thought can be groomed and educated to the glory of God
Can I tailor educational opportunities for my high-school age child?
Most definitely. The major advantage of homeschooling is that it allows you to spend extra time on those areas that need more personalized attention. Moreover, if your student has special giftings or talents, the flexibility of the schedule allows for greater concentration on the pursuit of excellence in that particular area.
How will I evaluate our progress?
Many homeschool publishers include tests as part of their curriculum choices. Standardized tests are available to monitor progress. However, the best indication of how well a student is learning is not in the answers they give, but in the questions they ask.
Are there people to help me as I get started?
Yes, there are a multitude of resources. A good place to start is Home School Legal Defense Association (www.hslda.org). Spending time at this website, will give you many resources to check out and many links to pursue.
Where can I go for instruction as to how to be a good teacher?
There are a number of good resources for this. Much can be accomplished by making use of the teacher editions and guides that come with many courses. There are many homeschooling magazines and websites and support groups that offer seminars and newsletters to help you.
What resources are available?
Go to the internet and type in homeschooling and you will have many days of reading material. Videos are also available, as are books that can be found online and at many Christian bookstores and booksellers.
What are my options in setting a course of study?
Depending on what your student is interested in pursuing, you can make use of online courses, community college courses, DVD courses, audio CD courses, and many computer based ones. If your school will be college prep, you can find out what requirements have to be met (subjects covered) and tailor your curriculum accordingly.
Where does a Biblical Worldview enter the picture when it comes to homeschooling through high school?
This is probably the most important question. Since there is no neutrality when in comes to ethics and morality, it is vital that a biblical worldview is presented in every subject taught. Jesus Christ is the Way, the Truth, and the Life, and His law-word must be the standard by which all areas of life and thought are judged. Browsing through the offerings @ www.ChalcedonStore.com is a good place to find helpful materials and resources.
The book of Proverbs stresses the importance of wisdom, knowledge, and discretion. Throughout a young person's life, it is important that the primary influences be godly individuals who know the young person's strengths and weaknesses and can provide hands-on support in helping him/her maneuver through the many deceptions and lures of our modern humanistic culture. Homeschooling provides such a situation.
Aren't high school subjects harder to teach?
That depends. With a myriad of curriculum choices available (complete with teacher's editions and answer keys) much of the learning experience can be tailored to meet individual academic needs. Many families make use of co-ops where parents divide up subject matter according to their area of expertise or experience.
What about athletic opportunities and activities?
A number of private Christian schools allow homeschooled students to participate in athletic activities. Also, drama, speech, and other programs may also be available, either through a school or by way of a homeschooling co-op. Of course, if there is something that parents want that doesn't exist, they can always start a project themselves!
What about socialization?
This is a non-issue. In our current society, no one who attends church, goes to the grocery store, or is involved with extended family has any difficulty in socializing if they have been taught the rules of godly living from the time they were little. The entire socialization issue is a humanistic construct. Surely we can't say that the students who are graduates of public school settings are systematically socialized in ways that most people would consider positive.
Will homeschooling through high school hamper my child's chances of getting into college?
Not according to the experience of homeschooling families around the country. Many have attained very high SAT/ACT scores. Moreover, many college professors actually prefer homeschool graduates because they tend to be self-starters and ready for serious self-disciplined study. It is not unusual for homeschooled graduates to finish college is less than four years.
What should I be looking to achieve in my homeschool?
The most important result of successful homeschooling will be the production of godly individuals who look to the Word of God to provide a perspective and standard for what is right and true and honorable. With this orientation, all areas of life and thought can be groomed and educated to the glory of God
Can I tailor educational opportunities for my high-school age child?
Most definitely. The major advantage of homeschooling is that it allows you to spend extra time on those areas that need more personalized attention. Moreover, if your student has special giftings or talents, the flexibility of the schedule allows for greater concentration on the pursuit of excellence in that particular area.
How will I evaluate our progress?
Many homeschool publishers include tests as part of their curriculum choices. Standardized tests are available to monitor progress. However, the best indication of how well a student is learning is not in the answers they give, but in the questions they ask.
Are there people to help me as I get started?
Yes, there are a multitude of resources. A good place to start is Home School Legal Defense Association (www.hslda.org). Spending time at this website, will give you many resources to check out and many links to pursue.
Where can I go for instruction as to how to be a good teacher?
There are a number of good resources for this. Much can be accomplished by making use of the teacher editions and guides that come with many courses. There are many homeschooling magazines and websites and support groups that offer seminars and newsletters to help you.
What resources are available?
Go to the internet and type in homeschooling and you will have many days of reading material. Videos are also available, as are books that can be found online and at many Christian bookstores and booksellers.
What are my options in setting a course of study?
Depending on what your student is interested in pursuing, you can make use of online courses, community college courses, DVD courses, audio CD courses, and many computer based ones. If your school will be college prep, you can find out what requirements have to be met (subjects covered) and tailor your curriculum accordingly.
Where does a Biblical Worldview enter the picture when it comes to homeschooling through high school?
This is probably the most important question. Since there is no neutrality when in comes to ethics and morality, it is vital that a biblical worldview is presented in every subject taught. Jesus Christ is the Way, the Truth, and the Life, and His law-word must be the standard by which all areas of life and thought are judged. Browsing through the offerings @ www.ChalcedonStore.com is a good place to find helpful materials and resources.
Friday, March 16, 2007
A Small Town in a Big City
The other night as I was an audience member for a homeschool musical theater production of the musical Annie, I was once again struck about how unique Christian homeschooling is as a cultural trend. What begins as a desire to provide a distinctively Christian education to children under the hands-on guidance and direction of the parents, evolves (yes, I use that word intentionally) into a community of caring and productive families eager to serve the Lord Jesus Christ.
Guests who are not accustomed to homeschooling circles almost always remark at how well-behaved and orderly the children are, and how readily they take direction and show respect for those in authority. If you, like me, are used to such things, it doesn't seem like such a big deal. One woman, who had been a teacher in public schools and Sunday schools for over 40 years, was dumbfounded that 80+ children under the direction of about 5 - 7 moms were so cooperative.
After the show, people hung around to talk for twice as long as the show itself. One homeschooling mom commented, "You know, being part of the homeschooling community is like living in a small town in the midst of a big city." I was struck as to the accuracy and insight of that statement. I've been part of many groups, both Christian and secular, and nothing compares to the dynamics of homeschooling families interacting with one another.
The following day I received an email that went out to the Coram Deo Chorus email list. Here is the text:
Isn't it amazing, that when parents whose primary goal and desire is to provide a daily context where their professed faith parallels their confessed faith, that they that sow in tears shall reap in joy. May God be pleased to strengthen the bonds and resolve of Christian homeschooling families everywhere.
Guests who are not accustomed to homeschooling circles almost always remark at how well-behaved and orderly the children are, and how readily they take direction and show respect for those in authority. If you, like me, are used to such things, it doesn't seem like such a big deal. One woman, who had been a teacher in public schools and Sunday schools for over 40 years, was dumbfounded that 80+ children under the direction of about 5 - 7 moms were so cooperative.
After the show, people hung around to talk for twice as long as the show itself. One homeschooling mom commented, "You know, being part of the homeschooling community is like living in a small town in the midst of a big city." I was struck as to the accuracy and insight of that statement. I've been part of many groups, both Christian and secular, and nothing compares to the dynamics of homeschooling families interacting with one another.
The following day I received an email that went out to the Coram Deo Chorus email list. Here is the text:
Hello Dear Coram Deo Parents,
As we are new this year to the choir, I wanted to thank everyone for your gracious inclusion of me and my four children into your circle. My kids are thrilled to have new friends, and a place where they can grow and laugh and learn together with other homeschooled families (this is the 1st year I have homeschooled them). It is challenging for me at times to be the only single parent among you, but I have experienced friendship & acceptance, for which I am grateful.
To most of the students in the Annie production, it is a cute and amusing story of "rags to riches". To our family, this particular play is very close to home, since some of you know that as a single mother, I have recently adopted all four siblings. The pain of loss, the desperate desire to be loved by birthparents, the mixed blessing of adoption, the stigma of being "orphaned", and the longing to be wanted, are all realities that my children have LIVED, not just performed on a stage. It is recent pain for them, and yet they live in joy and gratitude, which is the truest miracle of God's amazing grace over them.
God bless you all for your efforts with your kids (and mine!) They will carry these memories forever, I am sure.
Isn't it amazing, that when parents whose primary goal and desire is to provide a daily context where their professed faith parallels their confessed faith, that they that sow in tears shall reap in joy. May God be pleased to strengthen the bonds and resolve of Christian homeschooling families everywhere.
Wednesday, March 14, 2007
Ordinary People
Today I followed up on a family who began to homeschool their children as a result of meeting with me and ready my book Lessons Learned from Years of Homeschooling. How great it is to hear how well the children are doing. Both grammar school age children are diligent in getting their schoolwork done in order to "earn" time with activities of their choosing. Additionally, they are very eager to show their dad the daily work they've completed, as opposed to those dreaded face-to-face confrontations that used to be the norm as a result of daily calls from the school principal. The mom kept telling me how much she loves being with her children and watching them learn - really learn. She commented that she believes they get much more done than they ever accomplished at the public school they previously attended.
This scenario is repeated day-in and day-out across the country as parents who want the best for their children take the step out in faith and find that homeschooling fits their lifestyle and worldview much better than does sending their children to a public school.
Today, I also got two emails from folks who want to begin homeschooling and are "concerned" that they aren't qualified or experienced enough to do so. Oh that I had the technological capabilities to have a giant conference call so that one group (hesitant ones) could communicate freely with those who've taken the plunge (happy ones) and whose success stories would assuage any fears of inadequacy. They'd learn that homeschooling parents are just ordinary people with extraordinary faith that God will supply all their needs in Christ Jesus, as they daily embark on the task of rearing their children in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.
If you are, know, or run into people who don't feel that they have what it takes to educate their children, send them my way. I relish the opportunity to turn their doubts into a vision for the godly results of Christian homeschooling.
This scenario is repeated day-in and day-out across the country as parents who want the best for their children take the step out in faith and find that homeschooling fits their lifestyle and worldview much better than does sending their children to a public school.
Today, I also got two emails from folks who want to begin homeschooling and are "concerned" that they aren't qualified or experienced enough to do so. Oh that I had the technological capabilities to have a giant conference call so that one group (hesitant ones) could communicate freely with those who've taken the plunge (happy ones) and whose success stories would assuage any fears of inadequacy. They'd learn that homeschooling parents are just ordinary people with extraordinary faith that God will supply all their needs in Christ Jesus, as they daily embark on the task of rearing their children in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.
If you are, know, or run into people who don't feel that they have what it takes to educate their children, send them my way. I relish the opportunity to turn their doubts into a vision for the godly results of Christian homeschooling.
Monday, March 12, 2007
Building a Homeschool Lending Library
Over the years I have used a wide variety of curricula and audio/video resources to help me in the home education of my children. Some of these were used by all three children; others were acquired to suit the particular needs of one child's individual learning style. In the process, I was building quite a good library and a body of knowledge of the various publishers. Then, I began to purchase resources (both new and used) that I felt would be helpful to me to further educate myself to be the best teacher possible for my kids. In time, I needed more and more bookcases to house what would become useful tools for my own children, those I tutored or taught, and eventually to become part of our homeschool lending library. This has been a great outreach for my family as the library continues to loan out materials for review, or a year's worth of use to new homeschoolers and veterans alike.
Homeschool families, co-ops and homeschool-friendly churches should make a concerted effort to establish libraries to serve their local cities and communities. With the increasing number of families making the choice to provide a distinctively Christian education to their children, being ready to help is a very pro-active and godly endeavor.
Our library required families to sign up to participate and fill out a lending agreement. It included the following:
Homeschool families, co-ops and homeschool-friendly churches should make a concerted effort to establish libraries to serve their local cities and communities. With the increasing number of families making the choice to provide a distinctively Christian education to their children, being ready to help is a very pro-active and godly endeavor.
Our library required families to sign up to participate and fill out a lending agreement. It included the following:
There is no fee to borrow materials. However, library materials undergo normal wear and tear so we encourage donations to help us replace worn out materials and to expand the library.If you have any questions, feel free to contact me: lessons.learned@yahoo.com
Lending period is for two weeks unless special arrangements are made.
Books and other materials are to be returned in the condition they are received.
In the event library materials are not returned in useable condition, we require that the borrower pay replacement costs in addition to a service fee of $10.
Any problem with library materials should be brought to our attention immediately.
Materials are lent to you and your family and should not be lent to other individuals or families. If other families wish to borrow materials, they need to fill out an agreement in order to borrow directly from us.
It is the responsibility of the borrower to return library materials as agreed and not the responsibility of the library to call and pick them up. However, convenient arrangements can be made for pick up and delivery.
Lending privileges may be revoked at the discretion of the library staff.
Since we are now expanding the lending privileges, other conditions may be added to this agreement as experience dictates. In that case, you will be notified in writing of such changes, if and when they occur.
Wednesday, March 7, 2007
Categories
People often homeschool because they desire to provide their children with a distinctively Christian education. This is a good thing. Although proper curriculum and a balanced schedule are a big piece of the puzzle, parents often fail to pay enough attention to girding themselves with a strong theological and philosophical base. Consequently, they may overlook areas or subjects in their own background and experience that aren't biblical in orientation. It is important to re-evaluate the categories in which you think, ensuring that they are biblical categories and not humanistic ones.
Let me give you an example. This past week I purchased a supplemental biology program called Biology 101: Biology According to the Days of Creation. Here is a brief description:
Biology 101 is a complete overview of the world of biology from a Biblical perspective, in a set of 4 DVDs. Their short film "From Genesis to Genes" was the first-place winner in the "Creation Category" at the 2004 San Antonio Independent Christian Film Festival, sponsored by Vision Forum Ministries. The film generated a lot of excitement at the Festival, and their much-anticipated full version (over 4 hours) is now available, entitled "Biology 101."
Taking God's word as the starting point, this DVD course divides all life according to the days of creation. An exciting, visually rich experience, it is designed specifically for ages 15 years old and up. Filmed in locations throughout America's beautiful Northwest, Biology 101 is full of accurate and fascinating information supported by hundreds of captivating visuals and graphics. The 4 DVD set is accompanied by a printable (pdf) guidebook, allowing the student to easily review all the information covered in the film. Each guidebook segment includes a multiple choice quiz and discussion questions. A 12-page "Course Accreditation Program" booklet is included for those families who want a year-long biology course.
Biology 101 was developed and hosted by Wes Olson, Multnomah Bible College graduate, veteran filmmaker of 15 years, and homeschooling father. Wes guides you through the world of "biological science," unraveling and decoding terms and ideas. This DVD course of study will help you fully integrate the world of biology into an accurate Biblical worldview.
This new program challenged and corrected me in the very first segment. Keep in mind that I've been homeschooling for 25 years and have never embraced the evolutionary mindset in teaching science; yet, this product quickly unearthed a premise I hadn't challenged in all those years. Simply put, it is erroneous to classify human beings in the same taxonomic "kingdom" as the animals. By subconsciously accepting this classification structure, I had given credence to the false teaching man is just an "advanced" animal. In teaching my older two children, I never fully challenged the taxonomic classification that I had been taught during my years in school. Genesis clearly states that man is categorically different from the animals, however similar some structures may be. I had failed to filter biological classifications through the lens of Scripture.
Homeschooling parents should make a concentrated effort to examine ALL the presuppositions that they hold in all areas to see if they inadvertently hold a view that doesn't have agreement with the Holy Word of God. Not sure where to start? Well, Chalcedon's materials, including its bimonthly magazine Faith for All of Life is a good place to start, as are the biblical worldview materials from American Vision and Vision Forum
Don't put off or abandon homeschooling until you are totally in line with the Bible in all areas. Learn alongside your children, and take advantage of the head-start you have on them, as you organize their education in a categorically biblical fashion. As the Proverb 3:5-6 promises:
Trust in the LORD with all your heart; and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct your paths.
Let me give you an example. This past week I purchased a supplemental biology program called Biology 101: Biology According to the Days of Creation. Here is a brief description:
Biology 101 is a complete overview of the world of biology from a Biblical perspective, in a set of 4 DVDs. Their short film "From Genesis to Genes" was the first-place winner in the "Creation Category" at the 2004 San Antonio Independent Christian Film Festival, sponsored by Vision Forum Ministries. The film generated a lot of excitement at the Festival, and their much-anticipated full version (over 4 hours) is now available, entitled "Biology 101."
Taking God's word as the starting point, this DVD course divides all life according to the days of creation. An exciting, visually rich experience, it is designed specifically for ages 15 years old and up. Filmed in locations throughout America's beautiful Northwest, Biology 101 is full of accurate and fascinating information supported by hundreds of captivating visuals and graphics. The 4 DVD set is accompanied by a printable (pdf) guidebook, allowing the student to easily review all the information covered in the film. Each guidebook segment includes a multiple choice quiz and discussion questions. A 12-page "Course Accreditation Program" booklet is included for those families who want a year-long biology course.
Biology 101 was developed and hosted by Wes Olson, Multnomah Bible College graduate, veteran filmmaker of 15 years, and homeschooling father. Wes guides you through the world of "biological science," unraveling and decoding terms and ideas. This DVD course of study will help you fully integrate the world of biology into an accurate Biblical worldview.
This new program challenged and corrected me in the very first segment. Keep in mind that I've been homeschooling for 25 years and have never embraced the evolutionary mindset in teaching science; yet, this product quickly unearthed a premise I hadn't challenged in all those years. Simply put, it is erroneous to classify human beings in the same taxonomic "kingdom" as the animals. By subconsciously accepting this classification structure, I had given credence to the false teaching man is just an "advanced" animal. In teaching my older two children, I never fully challenged the taxonomic classification that I had been taught during my years in school. Genesis clearly states that man is categorically different from the animals, however similar some structures may be. I had failed to filter biological classifications through the lens of Scripture.
Homeschooling parents should make a concentrated effort to examine ALL the presuppositions that they hold in all areas to see if they inadvertently hold a view that doesn't have agreement with the Holy Word of God. Not sure where to start? Well, Chalcedon's materials, including its bimonthly magazine Faith for All of Life is a good place to start, as are the biblical worldview materials from American Vision and Vision Forum
Don't put off or abandon homeschooling until you are totally in line with the Bible in all areas. Learn alongside your children, and take advantage of the head-start you have on them, as you organize their education in a categorically biblical fashion. As the Proverb 3:5-6 promises:
Trust in the LORD with all your heart; and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct your paths.
Tuesday, March 6, 2007
Correcting Your Children
I'm often in mentoring situations with mothers who are eager to raise godly children, and who struggle with how well they are accomplishing this task. The question of discipline comes up regularly and their concerns are whether they are being too strict or too lenient with their children. Over the years I've struggled with this myself and, like all other parenting issues, this is best dealt with by applying the Word of God to the issue of correction.
Everyone is born into the world with a sin nature. It is important to remember that those with a sin nature commit sins. This is where the law-word of God acts as a tutor for the child. He needs to be taught and reminded of the reality that he "naturally" is at war with God and needs a Savior so that he can come to peace with Him. Early on, children need to be taught that: sin is any want of conformity unto, or transgression of the law of God.
This sin nature can only be changed by an act of God through the redemption purchased by Jesus Christ and applied to an individual through the work of the Holy Spirit. We call this act of grace regeneration. However, those whose nature has been transformed through rebirth also commit sins. As parents, it is important to distinguish between those transgressions which are attempts to be obedient and miss the mark, and those which are deliberate actions carried out in defiance and/or rebellion.
When my children were young, I used the example of playing darts. The person who tries to hit the bullseye and misses and accidentally hits the dog is like the person who misses the mark. In the Greek, that sort of sin is hamartia. However, the person who is not aiming at the bullseye -- but is rather seeing if he can hit his dog is not missing the mark, but is aiming to miss. In the Greek, that sort of sin is anomia. In both cases, the dog has been hit, (sin has occurred), but the motive and circumstances dictate the appropriate correction.
The analogy can help you understand which category your child's transgression falls into. The first requires that the child take responsibility for his actions by administering first aid to the dog. It also involves a time of instruction, along with establishing certain rules and procedures when dealing with sharp objects, so something like this (or worse) doesn't happen again.
In the case of the child taking sport in hurting the animal, one is dealing with a sadistic act and discipline in the way of punishment is in order. Only after the child sees his act as sin, can repentance and instruction take root.
Of course, in order to adequately apply this principle, one must not be harsher with one's children than one is with oneself. In more colloquial terms, parents need to practice what they preach. They cannot hold their children to a higher standard than they hold themselves. Additionally, these everyday occurrences are appropriate opportunities to share the Gospel with your children as you identify where in Scripture a particular transgression is addressed (either explicitly or implicitly) and how through the blood of Jesus, one's sins are forgiven. I sometimes required an informal essay, in order to cement the point with my children.
Will your emotions or personal shortcomings sometimes contribute to you applying the incorrect punishment to a given situation? Sure. What then? Well, once you assess and confess your own sin to the Lord, it is the responsible and godly thing to make things right with your children asking them for their forgiveness if you were overly harsh OR overly lenient. That is why a systematic application of the law-word of God to every area of life and thought is so very important. Without such a standard, parents may be tempted to set up mini-dictatorships where their children have to learn how to appease the tyrant. The biblical model is to teach children the law-word of God and make sure they understand that parents are not exempt from faithful obedience. Together, these daily course corrections will be instrumental in preparing one's children for the time they will assume responsibility for themselves and their future families.
Everyone is born into the world with a sin nature. It is important to remember that those with a sin nature commit sins. This is where the law-word of God acts as a tutor for the child. He needs to be taught and reminded of the reality that he "naturally" is at war with God and needs a Savior so that he can come to peace with Him. Early on, children need to be taught that: sin is any want of conformity unto, or transgression of the law of God.
This sin nature can only be changed by an act of God through the redemption purchased by Jesus Christ and applied to an individual through the work of the Holy Spirit. We call this act of grace regeneration. However, those whose nature has been transformed through rebirth also commit sins. As parents, it is important to distinguish between those transgressions which are attempts to be obedient and miss the mark, and those which are deliberate actions carried out in defiance and/or rebellion.
When my children were young, I used the example of playing darts. The person who tries to hit the bullseye and misses and accidentally hits the dog is like the person who misses the mark. In the Greek, that sort of sin is hamartia. However, the person who is not aiming at the bullseye -- but is rather seeing if he can hit his dog is not missing the mark, but is aiming to miss. In the Greek, that sort of sin is anomia. In both cases, the dog has been hit, (sin has occurred), but the motive and circumstances dictate the appropriate correction.
The analogy can help you understand which category your child's transgression falls into. The first requires that the child take responsibility for his actions by administering first aid to the dog. It also involves a time of instruction, along with establishing certain rules and procedures when dealing with sharp objects, so something like this (or worse) doesn't happen again.
In the case of the child taking sport in hurting the animal, one is dealing with a sadistic act and discipline in the way of punishment is in order. Only after the child sees his act as sin, can repentance and instruction take root.
Of course, in order to adequately apply this principle, one must not be harsher with one's children than one is with oneself. In more colloquial terms, parents need to practice what they preach. They cannot hold their children to a higher standard than they hold themselves. Additionally, these everyday occurrences are appropriate opportunities to share the Gospel with your children as you identify where in Scripture a particular transgression is addressed (either explicitly or implicitly) and how through the blood of Jesus, one's sins are forgiven. I sometimes required an informal essay, in order to cement the point with my children.
Will your emotions or personal shortcomings sometimes contribute to you applying the incorrect punishment to a given situation? Sure. What then? Well, once you assess and confess your own sin to the Lord, it is the responsible and godly thing to make things right with your children asking them for their forgiveness if you were overly harsh OR overly lenient. That is why a systematic application of the law-word of God to every area of life and thought is so very important. Without such a standard, parents may be tempted to set up mini-dictatorships where their children have to learn how to appease the tyrant. The biblical model is to teach children the law-word of God and make sure they understand that parents are not exempt from faithful obedience. Together, these daily course corrections will be instrumental in preparing one's children for the time they will assume responsibility for themselves and their future families.
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